Words are powerful. They create the relationship we share. Words can destroy or build our marriages. So, if you want to enjoy a happy, healthy marriage that lasts a lifetime, use your words wisely. Here are several words that spouses hear often in a marriage that lasts a lifetime.

• “I love you.”
• “Thank you for everything you do.”
• “Thank you for… (fill in the blank).”
• “I’m sorry. That was wrong of me.”
• “I’m here for you.”
• “What can I do to help you?”
• “I appreciate you.”
• “I really admire… (fill in the blank with something you admire).”
• “You’re right. (For an added bonus say, “I was wrong. You were right.”)”
• “I’m proud of you.”
• “You look nice (beautiful, handsome, good).”
• “My anger (frustration, irritation, “crankiness”) has nothing to do with you. I’m sorry my mood upsets you.”
• “We’re in this together.”
• “We make a good team.”
• “Explain that to me again; I really want to understand.”
• “Thank you for being there for me.”
• “I’m glad we married one another.”
• “I really enjoy spending time with you.”

You can modify these words to fit the situation or circumstance. They are simple. Loving. Marriage strengthening words. When said, they communicate important messages every spouse wants and needs to hear. What would you add to this list?